Talking about politics with family, personal, Israel (-)
The relatives we're spending Thanksgiving with include a few Israel Right or Wrong types.
I am now at odds with my mother over how best to support my cousin's Palestinian best friend who will also be there.
I want to do what I try to do in queer spaces, which is lead with "hey, if things get too hot in here, let me know, I'll start a card game at the other end of the house or something."
Mom thinks that'll scare her.
Talking about politics with family, personal, Israel (-)
Do really they think I'll be the reason she thinks she's in danger? Do they think she'll feel more secure not knowing where the exits are?
Dad says "she's an adult, she knows how to handle situations like this." So? I was well into my 20s before I figured out how to leave conversations that made me feel unsafe. And having other people jump in to defend me has always been less helpful than having someone get me out of the room.
Talking about politics with family, personal, Israel (-)
Dad is at least right that I shouldn't stress myself out taking responsibility for someone else's friend.
But if someone brings up Gaza, I'm leaving the room and asking her if she wants to come with me.
re: Talking about politics with family, personal, Israel (-)
@WizardOfDocs Fingers crossed this won't come up. I wouldn't wish such a crummy situation on anyone.
