Masculinity isn't fuckin' hot dust, kids - it's not a thing that's inherently and universally toxic and corrosive to life. It *can be leveraged* by toxic agents, but *anything can be.*
And besides that, flick a couple more neurons on for a second: You'd think if someone's choosing to do the work and Be A Man instead of simply inheriting the title, they'd know at least a few of the toxic behaviors to avoid from the start, yeah?
Fuckin' kids, I swear...