grumpy elder queer noises re: masculinity 

Masculinity isn't fuckin' hot dust, kids - it's not a thing that's inherently and universally toxic and corrosive to life. It *can be leveraged* by toxic agents, but *anything can be.*

And besides that, flick a couple more neurons on for a second: You'd think if someone's choosing to do the work and Be A Man instead of simply inheriting the title, they'd know at least a few of the toxic behaviors to avoid from the start, yeah?

Fuckin' kids, I swear...

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grumpy elder queer noises re: masculinity 

@LexYeen no matter who you are, or what you do, someone else has decided you’re one of THOSE evil people and will gladly just cut loose around you (see also; someone else will gladly cut loose about your friends around you).

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