WOW telling me "Sounds like your letting stuff linger instead of moving past them" is about as sympathetic as something my parents would tell me, and it makes me both pissed off and self-hating.
@green Thanks. I should probably apologize for venting about it here but that was incredibly ouchy.
@Leucrotta eh, fwiw no need to apologize to me--that sounds like a perfectly legit reason to need to vent. *hugs offered*
@Leucrotta "sounds like you're being a self-righteous insensitive asshole instead of a friend. BUT WHO'S KEEPING SCORE"
uuuggggghhhhh I'm sorry that really is an incredibly shitty thing to say. :|