more about being enby
I *do* have cis-male and white guilt.
What’s *also* true is I don’t especially “feel” male. I mean yeah that’s my assigned birth gender and my sexuality is kinda phallocentric but it’s like eye color. If my eyes changed color it wouldn’t change anything. If I woke up with girl bits I’d masturbate differently, that’s all. I like having okay muscle definition, I hate having all this body hair.
Really. Former southerner or UM alum are way way bigger identities to me.