Gender stuff
I feel like I have the opposite of most trans experiences. My body never really committed to either binary and I was raised by my mom on a hippie flower farm like I was a girl.
Then I felt like I had to Own what I was and spent my 20s presenting as an overweight, awkwardly feminine Man.
And Now... Well, something happened and I don't feel like I have to try and be that any more.
I got validation way before I felt like I needed it and im worried it fucked me up.