Community, gender, etc
One of my issues with being Out in any capacity is that I've never really felt Gay enough or trans enough to feel at home in the greater community, even though I know it's not '06 any more and I'm not going to get labelled as a turncoat or pretender.
I just feel way more naturally Variable than others, and just kinda exist on both sides. So it's hard to feel like there's a me I want to be, just a Me that is.