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Social gender stuff 

On the one hand, I'm finally naturally comfortable in myself, as myself, presenting Male and knowing that I'm Valid. But it's like an outfit I can wear, if what I'm doing and who I'm with makes it optimal.

For a lot of the rest of my life, Female seems to be the optimal presentation, attitude, accessories, Everything. Not that being Male would be bad for these things, but just Sub-Optimal.

It's a weird dysphoria to have.

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