Gender stuff, weirdness
One of my biggest problems is that I'm not Trans.
Well, Sorta.
My assigned gender growing up was Hermaphrodite. Like, recognized in my family, no big deal, and it's my natural vibe. I wasn't one of the Boys.
But I had decided I was gonna be an engineer, so I had to pretend really hard at "Man" through my 20s and it sucked.
So, uh... I feel kinda odd, my experience is Inverted compared to everyone who grew up Catholic...