re: Gender stuff, weirdness
I'm... Hm. Think Sigil, Angrboda, Gillpanda, Endium. I'm a shapeshifter who likes helping other people be their truest selves.
I had to explore not just both sides, but All sides. Relationships can be deep and meaningful and founded on not a love for one another but a love for a Third. I've seen the relationship that can form between Bassist and Drummer over a Decade or more.
I'll never have that kind of Mind Meld with @budgiebin@snouts.online, and we're gross soulmates.