One of the tough parts here is that while I get possessed by a lady spirit on the regular now, I'm really not in the same boat as most of the transgirls I know.
Or, put another way, it's hard to feel trans when you're just finally accepting your Assigned and Reinforced gender from childhood isn't and was never 'Male', it just uses the same pronouns because it's easier that way.
y'all got raised catholic as far as I can tell. I got raised a Witch.