@skolli@mastodon.social I got around that by just making it my Thing that the friendzone is more of a VIP lounge with me. I love all my close friends in different ways, and sometimes they wanna get physical.
I kinda ended up the Hot Girl Waaaay before I was even considering being a girl. It's weird.
You seem pretty cool though, I think your primary issue is overthinking things. Just Show them you like them. Share and give like you're already Family.