So, wait, lemmie get this clear.
You folks want the big shy bara dragon husbando with the big floofy beard who can do a brake job on your car in an hour or so, is a subby service top and gives big hugs.
And you apparently Also want the devious hippie pirate witch dragoness who can look right into your Soul and tell you precisely what you never knew you wanted (Or could want), is a soft dominatrix and gives Tarot readings and lectures on metaphysical principles.
It's a lot of work being both.