re: gender stuff, semi-horny I guess?
@sabby You know, someone called me out for Specifically this kind of kink, but for expressing the desire to be a Top in this situation.
Like Uhhh? Some people Want the kind of psychological abuse I grew up with, just without the nasty side effects. Last I checked, Nicotine is poison, it's True.
Folks just want a tiny bit of poison for flavor and none of the related toxic shit.
re: gender stuff, semi-horny I guess?
@Motodrachen Honestly, if you want to break open locks... erm, you're welcome?
Not that you really have to fiddle in my head much. Everyone is more or less welcome.
re: gender stuff, semi-horny I guess?
@Motodrachen There are some science papers, that show that that kind of "abuse, but not really because everyone is consenting" is actually a coping mechanism for many.
The study subjects were mostly rape victims, who engage into consenting NC role play and it helps them.
I think it is similar for me here. Like it helps me cope with my dysphoria.