Sex
One of the problems with being a Poly pansexual genderfluid is you'll find yourself feeling Really into banging with one of your Guy friends...
But you're like... Bros with all the queer cisguys in your group. ._. Good, healthy relationships, but you'll spend two hours in a car, horny, with another guy who's queer and horny, and a night of snuggles and handjobs is off the table.