re: gender stuff
@faygraves oh gods, same. I hate my professional look, my professional voice, and it fills me with a Ton of impostor feelings.
Besides, I look better in a Skirt or Kilt anyways. Getting asked by the owner in a passive-aggressive way to wear Pants when a customer is coming in really fucking Hurt.
re: gender stuff
@Motodrachen I got shit on by my bosses and customers at two different 7-Elevens this year and the one before for growing my hair out and painting my nails from time to time, and still kinda get stares from customers at my current mall clothing job and it's upsetting