@plausocks Kerithe: Look, you don't have to exist as the girl who looks in the mirror and sees a hot boy she would wanna date, but it's Her.
Fucking frustrating when you can see that but your headmate who actually identifies as a 'He' has chronic low self esteem.
We've had to settle on 'Yes, nominally male, but there's a Surprise.' same way our wife is 'Girl, Yes, but made from Truck parts'