@clipclopboom@snouts.online And... Well, You both know that right now is when Charity and Equality are most important. You both know that to feel Secure in your presentation, your Spirit and your Reality need to be Aligned.
With the Empress inverted, and the Priestess ahead of you... Well, one of those women is going to have to Budge, and I'm pretty sure I know which one.
Be prepared for the Therapist to focus strongly on your Wife, and the conflicts that result.