I find it's way easier to tell normies that I'm a Witch than anything about my Gender.
"Like, a Wiccan?"
"No, I was born this way and it caught up to me in my 30s, I used to be an engineer"
"So, what, magic spells and stuff?"
"Potions, divination, psychic warfare, communicating with spirits, Yeah."
Somehow they have an easier time with Magic being Real than someone being Non-Binary.