@clipclopboom@snouts.online True, And you haven't been Bad in that regard. ... Especially considering the Minefield you're living in.

On my end it's just... Well, being a Woman was always more about making your own bread, knowing the small secrets of the natural world, putting others needs before your own, and understanding how to really Care for people than the Clothes, or the Body, or the place in modern american society.

Hell, I failed at the clothes, body and place in society as a Guy. Then Kerithe came along, showed me that she was all that and a bag of chips when it came to being a woman, then reminded me that if she was living here and could do all the Girl Magic, I should stop beating myself up over being a Man, or at least tone it back by Half.

Lots of misandry in my family past.