update bc I didn't realize this was my own damn thread, I blame autoimmune fatigue ^..^;
@Motodrachen Yeah I'm most genders. Man and woman are elusive, and herm just doesn't do it, but I've been most of the rest.
Also I checked with the zerg and they absolutely _do_ have gender but sign that I wouldn't understand their system. (They're a caste-based society; it's complicated. They're a savant, a visceral and a breeder.)
I mean ngl the clothing choices _are_ simpler. Dietary choices not so much.