I'm starting to realize that the Non-binary designation just kinda... Doesn't cover it for me.

That and there's three folks in here now so the situation is non-binary to begin with.

And folks consider Herm a slur, but it's what I kinda Am. I experience Both being a Man and being a Woman, sometimes at the same time.
And not just Sexually or in terms of body image. Kerithe's Womanhood is almost totally detached from physicality. Tohri's Masculinity is more of an Ethos than anything.
And TBH I was a boy raised with the full expectation that I'd be a Mom on the Flower Farm, and if I'd been Actually transmale, I'd have wanted my money back for that Puberty.

So, physically I'm Not-Quite-Male. Emotionally I'm so much of a girl I was never accepted by the 'Real Men'. At the same time, I threaten those Real Men because I can sling wrenches harder and faster than they can, and hear the whispers of the machine god.
And with Women, they get the wrong impression at First sometime, then end up identifying me as 'Gay best Friend' and I end up just kinda letting myself slide into that slot unless Keri is out.
Then it's Disaster Lesbian Theater.