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Actually pissed 'Beta Male' is a slur.
There shouldn't be any shame in being a Soft Boi, modern life is stacked up in a way where there's no real opportunity for being a 'Real Man' in a wholesome way.

Because to do it correctly, it's this whole lifestyle transition. And it Sucks. Most Def not for everybody.

Aren't any more Cowboys, Steel Workers, Craftsmen, or Farmers for a reason.
Masculinity is a minefield for a lotta folks, because feeling the healthy kind is Rare these days.

Gender take 

@Motodrachen Soft Boi who responds to displays of machismo with a blank look and getting on with whatever they were doing -> gender role anarchist. :)

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