Horny, personal
Feeling a major need for some low-key, social sex.
I'm wired weird. I don't like hooking up with Randos, I like having the chance to play with my Friends. I need some actual social context to really feel sexual attraction.
But once past that point, I'm more or less totally open. I love social gatherings where everyone's comfortable enough to be nude and casually sexual with each other. I love nude swims and shared showers.
Even just sharing sleeping arrangements. I really enjoy activities that can Lead to sex, more than the sex itself.