non-binary pondering, slur-adjacent, input appreciated 

Something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately: I need a gender-neutral word for “dickgirl” for myself.

There are certain circumstances where one wants to specify bodily config as opposed to just gender, and we have a lot of words like “dickgirl” and others, but even if you want to “reclaim” those words to some extent, they’re still gendered, which means I don’t feel particularly comfortable using them for myself.

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re: non-binary pondering, slur-adjacent, input appreciated 

@lacuna I feel the same way about being a Hermaphrodite. Like... Yeah it's a slur type thing for intersex folks but uh, I'm pretty damn intersex.
It's like... A defining trait at this point.

so like ???

re: non-binary pondering, slur-adjacent, input appreciated 

@Motodrachen yah, my philosophy is that if you’re intersex, you’re allowed to use that word.

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