Plural, gender
I think you probably automatically have less (severe) dysphoria, if one of you is a cis femme boy, in a boy body.
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@Motodrachen I can imagine. Though in this case I think it's more physical changes still.
Though that changes too, so we likely have to do some negotiation.
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@Motodrachen I think he's already the more girl one of us.
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@maxine *Keri glances at Tohri* Big mood in a lotta ways.
And Ugh, I wish there were better ways to share this stuff because so much of the plural experience is internal. And thusly, we'll have Very Precise ideas of our own gender or what we want, but it doesn't ever line up right with mainstream gender presentations.
And settling on a meatsuit look that allows everyone the freedom to front can be hard if folks have seriously polarized ideas of gender and role.
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@Motodrachen he's like hyper masculinity but only comes out on very high arousal and probably very high t levels.
I honestly say sabby might be overwhelmed by a more emotional Maxine. Like I am rather happy he deals with that stuff.
But ultimately I don't know and there are ways to transition without breasts (or small ones)
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@Motodrachen oh and he's rather rarely up.
Like he wasn't up since we realized we're plural. And might not come up for an equal amount of time.
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@Motodrachen I think it's easy for me at least. Unless you take Max into account.
But he's even weirder and not there most of the time.
Sabby and I agree that a more femme body would be nice.
Just he'd prefer no breasts and I'd like them.