@foxwitch@queer.af I'm gonna have to do a bunch of reading up I suppose.
This is mostly conjecture because I am Not anywhere near as male as any of my friends, even my Transfemme friends.
And that lead to a lot of overcompensation.
IDFK. A mutant wasp outside Proctor and Gamble in Quincy stung me a bunch on the beanbag as a little kid and I ended up a Gender Superhero.
I've guided a Bunch of people thru their hero's quest. I know both sides.