I went into the coffee place with my wife and one of our ladyfriends, and our coffees got weirdly misgendered.
The Haselnut that was going to our housemate Ian got a 'Hers' scribbled on in pink, and mine got a 'His' in the same pink cursive.
All three of us were wearing skirts or dresses or otherwise dressing Femme, which was the weird part.
So now I'm sitting here with a cup that ways 'His' in pink cursive, and feeling called out in a weird way.