I mean... Gay? It's really hard to think of myself as Gay.

All my friends are Bottoms. And girls. And even when I'm feeling really Girl, I'm still Boy by just... Relative Position.

If anything's gonna actually Happen, one of us is gonna have to top. No, I don't care what's between your legs, it's not super relevant.

Agender and Asexual with weird sensual and psychological kinks? Okay.
Shy and psychologically damaged with Very specific no-go stuff but nymphomaniacal otherwise? Absolutely.
Like Flirting almost exclusively, but enjoy having the One night where you get drunk and follow through and want someone who can change gears suddenly like that? Yup, been there.

I'm more like one of those Living Gasm Drives. My whole Fetish is just Being a shapeshifting tentacle monster who can Grant Wishes.

Does that make me Dom, or Sub? Or some weird superposition?