Bitterness, "potential" 

The phrase "you have so much potential" stings like a slap in the face. I got it in school, when I was struggling with undiagnosed disabilities. I got it at home, when my Gran talked about pushing me into lucrative professions for which I'm totally unsuited. I got it in the workplace, from employers who pointedly didn't understand my needs.

From this, I conclude that the phrase is the interpersonal equivalent of pounding on a machine and shouting "just work, damnit!"

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Bitterness, "potential" 

@Verdigris Big Mood. It's a way for folks to say 'You're so smart I can't help you'.

You're doing Fine. Don't get buried under the expectations of Others.

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