i wish someone involved in perpetuating these callouts against me would like, tell me what im expected to do.

cuz it feels like the answer is die and itd just be nice to have clear expectations

I mean, I get wanting to protect people. I do. and spreading around callouts sometimes can do that

but also i havent been talked to at all.

no one has reached out to hear my side of things or to even just tell me what it is im supposed to have done.

no one.

idk what the expected outcome of calling someone out is, when theres no recourse given to defend oneself, or work on changing whatever behaviors led to the callout in the first place.

and like, I do know where these callouts started from.

I know that I said to a girl, "I feel like you used me for sex" and she immediately started making callout posts.

this. is. abuse.

this isnt justice. at best its abuse. at its worst it's a bunch of people who didnt like me anyway, grasping onto a "valid reason" to isolate me because one particular person decided to make callouts to defend herself from being called out herself

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@Lumb Sounds like a vampire attack.

You can talk to me. I'm @Motodrachen on Telegram.

I'll hear you out, I've been studying this shit lately. It seems like a massive outbreak of malignant narccisissm.

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