gender stuff and clothing
@Efi thank youuu....
though it's a fair while off yet I think, probably... but I'm hopeful. Spoke to Miq about things and he's fine with me wearing whatever I like aorund the house and me being me and that's good and I feel better about it... and I can finally put away that part of my mind that keeps trying to tell me to be ashamed of who I am...
by which I mean stomp it flat because it's harmful to me and how dare it stop me being me.