@Noelle808@witches.town
And I was making a joke without knowing the context, apologies.
Yeah, I've definitely seen this with queer folx. It actually reminds me a lot of this article I linked to about a week ago about geek friendship faux pas. One of them was the "inability" of geeks, having been bullied as kids, to exclude anybody from hangouts... leading to situations with "that one guy" everyone secretly dislikes being invited to parties. Queer friend groups work similarly, for similar reasons.