Appearance -, advice?
That's totally fair. And in all honesty I'd rather date someone who was demi ANYWAY, so worrying about being attractive to people who prioritize physical appearance shouldn't be a goal of mine.... but I still get stuck on it from time to time.
It's the whole "cultural beauty norms are silly, but advertising sure is effective, isn't it?"
But you're absolutely right. And just now even strangers on masto have told me I'm cute, which is amazing and unexpected.