Transition Griping
So my ideal transition goals are to go from being read as "masculine woman" to "eccentric, effeminate guy-type".
But being someone who's VERY non-binary and only occasionally (tho strongly when it happens) guy-aligned, I feel like a medical transition is difficult to justify.
I wonder if a better hospital might be to work with acceptance of my body as it is, and confidence with my presentation. Ie, carrying myself & behaving as though I already looked like I wanted to.
Transition Griping
@Sparrow
*hugs for the valid enboi?*
Transition Griping
Thanks, love. *Hugs*
Transition Griping
@Sparrow
*hugs*
i get the feeling
y'all good whatever you do though <3
Transition Griping
Idk, it's just amazing to think how much of my mom's "do the easiest thing" and "don't stir the pot unless you absolutely have to" ideology is ingrained in me, especially wrt to transition. Like, if I were 100% binary man I'd just go for it. But since I'm non-binary I don't feel justified transitioning. Idk what to do to feel happy or honest in this respect, ESPECIALLY since mainstream society thinks my identity is frivolous.