Q, CW: body image, sex, objectification
Question for other ppl who have biggish tummies like myself:
How do you feel when/if a sex partner (who never previously mentioned having a fat fetish to you) gets really (vocally) excited about your "tum", calls you "so cute and fluffy", or pets it without asking?
I personally feel super grossed/creeped out and objectified. But I'm sure this experience must feel validating to other folx. What do you think?