Calling victims trash. Well, there's a move I didn't expect but is somehow so unsurprising these days.

This is how these people talk to victims of sexual assault, of economic abuse, of not being listened to as victims.

They group everyone that knows the truth, block us out from talking -- even though what did Hazel have to do with any of this?! She's being outed here too.

I was asked to recount my story of trauma AGAIN. And AGAIN, what I said was ignored, details forgotten, everything just dropped as if I said nothing at all.

Endless walls to collect info

There are many victims in all of this, and none of them are consulted. I make a convenient scapegoat for these abusers because I don't care about being loud. When I see people getting fucked over, I don't shut up about it. I only did before out of fear of social repercussions. Now I don't give a shit -- anyone who is okay with calling victims trash, get the fuck out of my life.

Of course I'm going to block someone that asked me to retell my story, and then immediately acts like I said nothing at all.

That is not something I trust.

When someone talks to me about abuse, I ask questions, I look into it. Because I do not want to ever support abuse happening.

But instead, I got people asking me, then ignoring what I said and finding some reason to dismiss me, shut me down, and ignore the other victims completely.

@Ulfra_Wolfe you blocked me first but go off

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@glowbold Yeah, sure, and people spreading shit on other servers and blocking Willow and Hazel from being able to give their versions of events are completely unrelated.

After hearing my story and constantly ignoring key elements of it.

Of actively evading anything said as nimbly as the most dishonest altfur.

I have run out of energy in explaining my abuse to people who only want to cover it up.

@Ulfra_Wolfe what am i covering up here? I'm on board with the idea that erika is an asshole who should be held to account for her shitty, abusive actions.

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