Hmm... this might be me: https://aromantic.wikia.org/wiki/Idemromantic
Okay, I think I misread it, it doesn't seem to be what I'm experiencing. What does seem to fit is Platoniflux, where you are unsure if what you're experiencing is platonic or romantic attraction, but at other times you can tell the difference.
Actually, this seems to fit me better. Nebularomantic basically means having a hard time distinguishing between platonic and romantic attraction, due to one's neurodivergency.
https://aromantic.wikia.org/wiki/Nebularomantic