sex / fetish stuff
I found the ‘4chan, but only girls are allowed’ image board (it’s also p terrible in ways similar to and unique from 4chan) and on its porn board I was bodied perhaps the worst I have ever been bodied in my life
sex / fetish stuff
From what I’ve seen from reading accounts online I think this isn’t just an issue for cis women either - any casual browse of /lgbt/ shows you a ton of people who are really into gender essentialism (did you know _having hobbies_ is ‘male brained’ lmao) feeling like being into fetish anything disqualifies them from being female and it’s a feeling I deeply understand and wish neither of us experienced)
sex / fetish stuff
To be fair, a lot of growing up and existing in The Horny TF Space has taught me that this is wrong, that there are a ton of other girls into it and it’s just that the community is so openly toxic and female sexuality so societally unpleasant that you almost never run into them, but the post encapsulates a lot of how the self loathing around TF manifested for me