@charlattan@mastodon.online it's where the idea that you deserve to get what you need starts.
idk there's a whole world of people ready to shit on us, and we all die alone in the end. it's worth the effort not to be your own enemy.
it's not easy. that's for sure. having a partner who sees me as worthwhile had helped, but internalizing that can be the work of a lifetime.
@charlattan@mastodon.online *has helped