Hi. If your server is severely lagging behind, it's okay!
This is how the early wave in April 2017 was. I never thought we'd experience it again, so this is a huge implication for how much the fediverse is growing right now!
It was pretty cool, and back then it taught me to engage with this space very differently than I had on Twitter.
It gave me time to write longer replies, both in character limit and thinking time.
Even if I was hours away from the next reply, I could calm my tits until then.
Also, go read a book and relax, we and all your notifications will be here when you come back!