Wellp, I can no longer say that no one at work has commented on my collar. After just over 5 years, that streak is broken.
Upside: It came up because a very cool coworker who also turns out to be poly and kinky mentioned a leatherworking class I might be interested in. XD
@indi I was really surprised that when I went home to visit family recently, nobody even mentioned my collar, not even at the birthday party with tons of church folks, /at/ the church.
Which just says to me it doesn't read as one? *shrugs*
Really cool that you got a good kind of comment from your coworker!