Trans issues, cis issues, argh
@Jacel We should be aiming for better than our opponents. Friendly fire creates enemies. Justifying the demand for others' emotional labor to permit us our venting of spleen is a shitty move and we should do better than that.
Trans issues, cis issues, argh
@Jacel At the risk of oversimplifying and exaggerating, I think there's a pretty big gap between "we have to stop letting them kill us" and "we need to kill them back to show them how it feels." Calling out anti-trans attitudes, expressions of trans pride, pointing out the history of erasure and identity loss, sure. Invalidating cis identity, even humorously, doesn't really seem to help us.
Trans issues, cis issues, argh
@Jacel Even just pointing out that cis _is_ an identity can be fraught enough, to say nothing of "human," "singlet," "orthomorph," "organic," "person," or any of a bunch of other possible ways in which folks can vary from the default set of assumptions. Weaponizing such ideas is bound to be a bad move.