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@Sparf @makyo Polyam isn't for everyone. It can be hard and everyone needs to be able to speak up about their needs and wants, and everyone has work to put towards strengthening their relationships without hurting other connections in the polycule. That can be really difficult to navigate when you're already upset.
It can be incredibly rewarding, but I do see the difficulties and the stress. Let me know if you want to talk about it.