I miss msn messenger because you could clearly delineate when you were online and offline
you would sign in and your friends would get notified that you signed in and people would talk to you
and then you could sign out and it was a clear boundary for “I’m not gonna reply”
now there’s this weird nebulous space with mobile messaging apps where the distinction between “available” and “unavailable” is not so clear
@pastelbat yeah, those are the main two apps I use but only because everyone I know is on them and doesn’t want to switch, welp