something that's taken me a long time to learn is that everyone has something they're 'abnormally' good at. like, in every friend group, there's always the person who can draw really well or knows a lot about certain things, and to those friends they're held in a sort of microcosmic regard, like x is the best at y. i figure folks should be more cognisant of that fact... you always contribute in your circles regardless of what you''re good at