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@dragon yeah. they keep bringing up stuff that they've done as like, proof that they're fine actually. a lot of it's stuff that i straight up did not ask them to do, like my mom went to a counselor to try and "work through it" and the therapy we are doing right now was also completely their idea. (supposedly it was to "help me process" but it's mostly the therapist mediating) me being trans places stress on them, yadda yadda
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@dragon like you're.. right in that they want me to process for them. one is frustrated because i won't Tell Her Things but treats anything i say about myself as too ridiculous or confusing to respect. none of this is very hard to conceptualize at all but they're............................. entitled