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Dysphoria 

For the first time in years I am not feeling depressed and also have pictures of myself that I don't completely hate soooo I decided to make a new OKCupid profile.

This is not going very well right now. :3

Dysphoria 

@somekindofcrow

Props for being in a good mental place!

OkCupid can be tricky. I'd give it a few weeks. At least in my experience (which has been as a girl looking for girls and as an enby looking for girls/enbies), it takes longer to get responses from ladies than men.

Dysphoria 

@somekindofcrow

& I realize I totally made an assumption about your sexuality (that you were interested in ladies) with literally zero reasoning behind it. I'm so sorry!

In general though I would give it a few weeks. Most people I know have rarely made connections on there right away.

Dysphoria 

@Sparrow No worries! Totally into not-dudes here. :3

Dysphoria 

@Sparrow I had an account on it before. It went... okay? Terrible? Who knows? It didn't help at all that I hated myself.

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