possibly sex
@memnus@octodon.social (okay I super want in on this conversation too after @acetone_kitten gets a chance to answer)
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@acetone_kitten @memnus@octodon.social For me sex is more about intent than physical acts? I've had excellent sex where genitals weren't involved and all clothing stayed on, and I've had a nice time penetrating a partner in a way that wasn't sex.
I'd have a damn hard time defining what exactly the defining intent *is*, though.
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@memnus@octodon.social @acetone_kitten It's something about... level of focus on another person? And wanting to reach a certain level of connection and pleasure with them.