cw: sexuality talk 

also speaking of like...partners and stuff, it's so weird that lately i've been having a really hard time thinking about my sexuality??? like...

i usually ID as a lesbian, but the thing is, i just generally dig people who aren't cis men??? like i very much dig anyone who id's as femme/nb so i feel like i can't call myself a lesbian

@Ramona I super relate to this. I call myself a lesbian too. The thing that made me feel okay with that was seeing someone say "I don't mean lesbian in the sense that I'm only attracted to women, I mean that my sexuality decenters men."

I've figured out that for me, the way it works is I'm only attracted to men who have first deconstructed what masculinity means.

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