@RavenWorks oh! i don't think you need to worry about having everything set in stone before you allow others to support you
it might not seem like you're mentioning anything substantial, but being supported on what's been weighing on you might make figuring out everything else easier!
if you want to say something, you totally should!
and if you think you're not ready yet, that's valid too!
your pace and your progress aren't what make you who you are–so you shouldn't tie that to your reasoning
@RavenWorks in the end, the thing that people will support isn't your comprehensive knowledge about what everything means, or how to interpret your mindset--what people will support is you!
your identity is important, but if your interpretation of it is in flux, that doesn't mean you are any less worth supporting
you're worth it, no matter how you decide you want to continue! you're worth it no matter what you discover!
you're worth it, @RavenWorks, because this is you!